Carlsbad Caverns National Park, and scouting out Guadalupe Mountains National Park. Day 14

Carlsbad Caverns is totally worth a visit! I could list all kinds of adjectives for this enormous cave but you just need to see it. We arrived for our timed entry and skipped the elevator to walk down the trail — a mile and a quarter long, dimly lit, damp, with switchbacks 80 stories down into the earth! That alone was pretty amazing. Everyone has to take to the elevator to exit, but the self guided audio players had lots of great info the entire walk down. Once you’re in the cavern there’s another mile+ loop around the “Big Room,” aptly named. We learned this is not the longest, deepest or biggest cave, but it is incredible! Maddy thought Luray Caverns was more beautiful with its stalactites and stalagmites everywhere you looked, but the sheer scale of this cavern is beyond impressive. Biggest surprise: there’s a gift shop, snack bar, and restroom facilities 700ft underground!

So I know I’ve raved about the Jr. Ranger program before, but it’s not just a cool badge, it’s the difference between walking through a park with some oohs and ahhs and really learning about what you’re looking at and what makes it so special. Yes, the activities are often pretty easy like word searches and crosswords, but you’re still learning.

I’m so grateful, again, that we’re making this trip THIS year with my kids still young enough to participate. Maddy already feels like she’s too old for some of it, but you can see her secretly enjoying the activities. And let’s be honest, who doesn’t want the badge you earn?

Best part of today’s ranger program was talking to 3 different rangers at the park. These people LOVE their jobs. One even has “Batmom” as her license plate. The last ranger, Anthony, was our favorite and even though we were all starving for lunch by this point, all of us kept asking more questions! He loved the girls’ interest and even gave them an extra poster. Our favorite conversation with him was all about the Lechuguilla Cave which is part of CCNP, but not accessible to the public. The photos he shared are incredible and knowing so much underground wilderness is still being explored that may never become accessible to the public makes you appreciate the caves you can see even more.

One of my favorite parts of today’s audio tour was hearing from such a huge range of professionals: park rangers, cave specialists, paleo-botanists (studying plants of the past), microbiologists, hydrologists, geologists… it was all very interesting. We all enjoyed this park and would highly recommend it to anyone. Now lunch and siesta!

Carlsbad Caverns are located under the Guadalupe Mountain Range and the Guadalupe Mountain National Park Visitor Center is only 30 minutes from the campground, so late afternoon we decided to check it out. Back to Texas we go! National Park #7, 5th of the trip. This is a much less visited park, and we saw very few people.

Like always, we asked for the Jr. Ranger Program (I am surprised it’s never offered, we always have to ask for it) and this particular ranger was way less enthusiastic about it all. He gave us the books and the pins – usually you have to show you completed everything, they make you do a pledge to protect the parks and nature and THEN they give you the badges! Not only was he less informative, the booklet itself was pretty small and the requirements for this park were: complete 6 pages or just take a hike. So we mapped out the hike we plan to do the next morning.

We all had fun checking out the local wildlife in the visitor center because they were all stuffed — so many snakes! I definitely DON’T want to see any of the wildlife here in the wild. We picked out our souvenirs – Mat gets a tacky magnet for the fridge, I get a Christmas ornament (we’re going to need a bigger xmas tree!), Emmy picks a key chain and Maddy collects the free maps and a sticker for her trunk.

When we left the visitor center the kids were NOT interested in a nature walk around the center (it was less than a mile!), they were done with the sun and done with this park. So, I may have threatened to return their souvenirs and told them they could buy them on amazon if they didn’t want to actually experience the park. They agreed to a short walk. We did learn that one thing that makes this area special is there was a mail route from St. Louis, MO to California, instead of sailing it around South America, before the Pony Express. They could make the trip in 25 days!

The kids also agreed to explore Frijole Ranch, which is a history museum in the park that requires little walking. Well, it was a bust since it was closed for renovations, so kids won out and we went home for a movie and ice cream with Murphy. They were right – much more fun. To be fair to the kids, we don’t have to love everything, and we have yet to find something here that really interests us. But we’ll be back tomorrow to try again.

Sunday, July 25, 2021

Summer sledding, goodbye Texas (for now), and BATS! Day 13

Drove 99 more miles across Texas early today to arrive at Monahan Sandhills State Park before the hot sun. We have been excited for this state park because they let you sled down the dunes! They rent the sleds, sell wax, give you tips on sledding techniques (um… we’re from NH, we got this!), and then say “you can go anywhere you want in the sand dunes, just don’t forget how to get back to your car.” So we left the AC running for Murphy while we explored the dunes and had a blast sledding. The fun was balanced pretty equally with work… you go down, but then you have to come back up! I was a little worried about getting exercise with all the RV driving, but when every step you take up is in sand rushing down the dune you don’t get far fast, LOL. We played, got filthy, showered in the outdoor showers, worked up an appetite for an early lunch… luckily we have an RV in the parking lot for clean, dry clothes and a hot lunch! So much fun. Reminded us of our amazing summer in Africa 4 years ago, but in west Texas.

Then more driving. More oil. Just google Permian Basin oil boom to get a sense of our surroundings. Everything was so industrial and semi-permanent looking, and flat! And RV parks everywhere, but not the kind vacationers want. And medians on the highway are merely a suggestion here — trucks that don’t like the highway just drive right off to the frontage road, right over the medians. And we saw a huge highway sign that read “hitchhikers may be escaped convicts”. Nice. After a few more hours crossing Texas, we finally made it to Whites City, NM. We are definitely back in tourist territory with not 1, but 2 national parks within 30 minutes of here. We set up camp — twice (to get better shade and a flatter spot) — and then headed to Carlsbad Caverns National Park (minutes away) for the evening Bat Flight Program at sunset. Our 6th national park and 4th of the trip! We listened to a ranger program, sitting in the beautiful outdoor amphitheater, all about the resident bats right up until the stars of the show started leaving the cavern. We witnessed hundreds of thousands of bats fly out of the cave for their evening feeding. It was quite a spectacular sight. And we learned this is how they originally found the cave! Can’t wait to come back tomorrow and head down INTO the cave (with the hundreds of thousands of bats that return every morning!)

We had a great first night in New Mexico and an awesome thunder storm to make us feel cozy in the camper during the night. We were able to watch the lightning light up the desert sky from our bedroom window, another incredible memory. Saturday, July 24, 2021

Texas mirage or Russ McEwen Family Aquatic Center? Yes please. Day 12

Today’s goal: Drive another inch across the Texas map. Dallas to Big Spring, Texas. View from the window: shrubs, hundreds of massive windmills, and oil drilling and fracking machines and refineries as far as the eye can see. All that industrial equipment sprinkled across the barren landscape makes the 99 degrees feel even hotter somehow. So when a perfect sized water park popped up in the middle of nowhere (10 minutes from our RV park) we happily paid the $5 entrance fee to float around the lazy river, enjoy the 2 water slides and just happily swim for hours.

Back at our RV park we made our first taco night, played cards, and didn’t venture far from the air-conditioned RV, and not just because of the heat. Tonight’s accommodations are at the Whip In Rv Park just off the highway. You can just ‘Whip In’ and that’s about it. We have hook ups and a place to sleep on our journey west so it’ll do. No “campgrounds” to be found but plenty of RV parks – most with residents working in this rural area. Mat likes to read reviews before we book somewhere to find places that aren’t primarily residents for our 1 night stays. He did well (compared to many RV parks we passed today!) and we are parked under 1 of the 2 trees we saw in Texas today.

Friday, July 23rd, 2021

A trip into Maddy’s mind. My thoughts on RVing

Night 1, The Poconos Mtns PA

So… This is my blog. It’s me, Maddy. I’m a 12 year-old girl, who enjoys filmmaking, skiing (skiing is life), lacrosse, reading, directing movies, exploring, traveling, hanging out, playing games, and organizing. I do argue with my sister sometimes, and I can be a little competitive, but overall I think I’m cool. 😉

My blog is just going to be whatever I’m thinking and what’s going on around me. Random thoughts of mine.

Going into this road trip I had no idea what to expect. I didn’t go on the April trip with the rest of my family, because I would have to miss school and lacrosse, both of which I love and didn’t want to miss. I know a lot of kids my age might disagree with me, I mean if you look at it this way- you get to skip school and go on a road trip across the east coast, so basically an extra vacation. But I love my school and I’m really enjoying my classes, so I didn’t want to miss out. Instead I stayed with my grandparents at home and built a ropes course, went to school, went to the beach, played lacrosse, etc. And when they came home they were happy and I was happy, no regrets, I still get to go on the summer trip.

The summer trip was hard for me to imagine, after a year of staying home in sweatpants all day, I was about to spend my entire summer away from home. Now there are 2 ways to look at this situation, and now, I wish I looked at it a different way, but this is how I saw it at the time– We spend the entire summer driving (I get carsick sometimes), going around looking at rocks for the entire summer, without friends, my own shower/bathroom/bed/privacy, and live the entire summer in a 31 foot can, with my family. And this is how my mom saw it… We get to spend the entire summer together traveling across the country seeing unique landscapes, in a huge car– Clearly we have pretty different thoughts. Also note, I was a grumpy moody 12 year old still in quarantine when we were planning the trip, so my thoughts were, well, moody. But now that I’m actually on the trip it’s a lot more fun.

What the trip actually is in 10 words: Fun, New, Exciting, Opportunity, Family, Travel, Games, Swimming, Driving, Exploration.

Yes, Emmy and I do have to share a mattress, but we each have own sleeping bag so we don’t bother each other. Yes, it’s sometimes a lot of driving, but it’s worth it, I’ve gotten to go so many new places. And even though I did sacrifice some privacy and alone-time for this trip its been completely worth it, I would definitely do this again. One new thing I learned during the trip, is that whenever I’ve traveled in the past I just think about when I get there, not how to get there. And this has really been an amazing opportunity to slow down and enjoy the ride. 🙂

More posts coming soon.

-Maddy

Travel day thoughts: we’re like “Below Deck” but “Above Ford Chassis” and a little less glamorous. Day 11

Today’s itinerary: Drive Hot Springs, AR to Dallas/Fort Worth KOA in Texas. Another new state for the kids. The packing up on driving days has become pretty routine and towing Peggy behind the RV has worked out great so far. Today we stopped outside Dallas to disconnect Peggy so I could go food shopping while Mat continues on to the campground with Crystal Betty and crew. Which got me thinking…

Do you watch “Below Deck” on Bravo? Mat and I love it when we just want to watch a light 30 minute show. Days like this I feel like the Chief Stewardess only missing my super yacht. On the drives I have time to plan excursions and entertainment for my privileged guests (my daughters), I do the provisioning, I’m in charge of the interior when we set up and breakdown camp, and I make sure my 2nd and 3rd stews get their chores done (also my daughters). Mat is the Captain getting us from place to place safely and he’s also the Bosun in charge of exterior setup/breakdown. We split chef duties but, again, it’s usually me prepping (interior) and him grilling (exterior). Now if only Leonardo DiCaprio would show up for lunch!

The drive was 320 miles but Mat and kids were all setup at the campground before 3pm which left lots of time to just enjoy camping. We decided before the trip that we weren’t going to do much city visiting this RV trip so while Dallas is very close by, we’re just passing through. We swam in the pool, played some games, and swam in the pool again until it closed at 9pm. It was just a fun family day. I enjoy seeing the country’s sights but I love enjoying campground life too. This Dallas KOA is right between 2 major cities but it was quiet and peaceful, had trees and shade, it was one of the nicer campgrounds we’ve been to. Tomorrow we continue on through Texas. This is a big state. It’s going to take us a few days.

Getting ready for the Summer Olympic synchronized swimming

Thursday, July 22, 2021

Hot Springs National Park. A little park, a lot of blog. Day 10

Today we visited our 5th National Park as a family, 3rd of the trip. We had no idea what to expect and for good reason… it’s hard to explain this place. In one word Maddy called it: different, Emmy called it: boring, Mat called it: unique, and I called it: strange. So what did the USA decide to protect and make a national park 100 years ago (it’s the centennial anniversary this year)? The hot springs mineral water that was thought to have rejuvenating and healing properties, and the bathhouses built over it as a means to provide access to the people. When I think of national parks I think of the first, Yellowstone, and the Roosevelt Arch with the words “For the Benefit and Enjoyment of the People” so I get that they wanted to protect this area because of its special history as a precious resource. It was actually named a a federal reservation way back in 1832 before Arkansas even became a state. My problem with this park and the notion that it was protected ‘for the enjoyment of the people’ is that the government covered almost all access to the spring water under green concrete locked boxes and routed all the water to bathhouses that for a time only white people were allowed to access at a fee that attracted the wealthy. Today, 8 bathhouses stand along Bathhouse Row, and only 2 are actually bathhouses: the Buckstaff (the ONLY one that has operated continuously from 1912) and the Quapaw Bathhouse (re-opened in 2007). The only way to access the spring water today is to make an appointment (by phone or in person only) for fancy spa treatments at one of these 2 houses and they book very fast! The Quapaw has a “public mineral pool” that you can pay $20 a person to sit in, but that has very limited space due to Covid, and no one under 14 is allowed! So I found the whole experience ironic… the land was protected so the mineral water could be accessed by all for future generations and it’s nearly impossible to actually access! Which is why I think Emerson’s assessment of “boring” is fair, especially being under 14. The other bathhouses have since been turned into other things: one’s the National Park Visitor Center, one’s a cultural center housing art works, one’s a gift shop, one’s a boutique hotel, one is a brewery that makes it’s beer and homemade root beer from the spring water (that was a good stop but avoid the dill pickle beer!) and one is still empty. In the spirit of protecting a resource that promoted health and wellness they also protected the land around the town with 26 miles of trails, making this the 2nd smallest National Park.

Despite the above review, we definitely found the fun. This was probably the best Jr. Ranger program because it did get the kids involved in a park that otherwise had limited activities for them. They had fun running up and down Bathhouse Row matching pictures of architecture to the right houses, looking for certain stained glass windows in the Fordyce Bathhouse museum, filling water bottles from the fountains with the hot spring water (so they did get to taste it even though they couldn’t soak anywhere). They worked hard for their pins under the hot Arkansas sun! Speaking of the Fordyce Museum: it was BIZARRE to walk through the old, preserved bathhouse that peaked in 1947. It had a feel of luxury with all the porcelain, marble and stained glass, but it also had the feel of a horror movie and asylums of the past as it felt sterile and abandoned! The various spa technologies and primitive exercise machines were interesting (esp. for this OT) but also resembled torture devices! Then again, the town is known for attracting MANY gangsters. They even have a Gangster Museum to celebrate their colorful history. Randomly, this place also attracted baseball players so you can take a walking tour to various spots significant to baseball history.

Our favorite bathhouse was Superior Bathhouse, home of the brewery. We had a fun lunch, sampled locals beers (one was pickled flavored and the videos of Mat and I trying it are pretty funny!). After exploring the national park sites in town we ventured to the Hot Springs Mountain Tower for views of the town and Ouachita Mountains. While I’m sure the trails offer a beautiful views of wooded park, it was WAY TOO HOT to hike so we drove up to the scenic lookouts.

The heat eventually chased us back to the pool and we never ventured back out even though Garvan Woodland Gardens was high on my to do list. The air-conditioned RV, games and quiet family time won out. Perfect. All in all it was a great day and I’m really glad we experienced Hot Springs National Park!

Wednesday, July 21st, 2021

Graceland! Crossing the Mississippi. Scratching off a brand new state. Day 9

Our cup of Americana is overflowing this morning. Benefits of staying in the Graceland RV Park is a short morning commute to next door. While we thought we were touring Elvis’s 13 acre estate we didn’t realize that 100+ acres next door had been turned into an Elvis theme park including warehouses of memorabilia, restaurants and diners, and of course, many gift shops. What a massive complex to celebrate the King of Rock and Roll. We had an early tour and were able to stay ahead of the lines and crowds all day which was nice. We hopped the bus to Elvis’s actual house with the iPads and headphones they handed out to everyone for the self guided tour of the house and property. I LOVED it! I love looking at houses anyway (Historic house tours, HGTV, Zillow, anything) so walking through this time capsule from the 70s was amazing. Shag carpet everywhere, on the floor, walls, ceiling!

After the relaxing paced tour we explored the exhibits back at the “Elvisland” complex… the car museum (so impressive), the media room, the jumpsuits, the icon exhibit where every celebrity under the sun praises Elvis, the exhibit of his war years, his collection of awards, his airplane… it just kept going! The kids seemed entertained and were great sports about the artist they have little interest in, but I definitely caught a couple eyes rolls every time we realized there was ANOTHER warehouse to walk through, lol. There were a few interactive exhibits that kept us all entertained. And lunch on-site was great. We all agreed you don’t have to be a huge Elvis fan to appreciate his career and massive influence he had on the music industry. A great stop on our cross country road trip.

Back in Crystal Betty we crossed the Mighty Mississippi on the I-55. (Because months ago we read that a bridge inspector doing routine inspection of the I-40 that we would have crossed over found a crack so massive he called 911 to shut the bridge down immediately. Yikes!) And we entered Arkansas. A new state for all 4 of us! Our first impressions: humid, bumpy highways, vast rural landscapes sprinkled with numerous and massive churches of all kinds. Our Hot Springs National Park KOA review: smallest spots yet, little pool but cooled us all off, campground ran out of water for a bit, massively heavy bathroom door that caused bruising on more than one of us, and great location to the National Park.

“I’m walking in Memphis…” History & Entertainment. Day 8

Our last morning in Nashville included provisioning (our 1st grocery run) and packing up to leave town. Next stop: Graceland RV Park in Memphis, TN. We arrived mid-afternoon and learned Memphis is home to the the National Civil Rights Museum housed in the former Lorraine Motel where Martin Luther King Jr. was assassinated, so we hopped in Peggy to go check it out. Tickets to the museum were sold out for the day but the outdoor exhibits were still wonderful and worth the trip. They had 6 or 7 kiosks with videos ranging from the causes MLK fought for, to the sanitation strike that brought him to Memphis, and of course, the events that took place that fateful day, the aftermath and journey to turn the motel into a museum. It was very moving and I would definitely make the effort to get the tickets we couldn’t if you are ever in town.

Next stop Beale Street. As we drove through Memphis I kept thinking of the Marc Cohn song so I put it on for the kids. I kept finding pieces of the song as we explored but, again, like the large apple, I was the most entertained by these little gems. We tried to stop for milkshakes at the old fashioned soda fountain in A. Schwab General Store (open since 1876) but caught it at closing so settled for massive sundaes at Hard Rock Cafe (same thing right?) There are plenty of restaurant choices on Beale Street but when the rain started we ducked into the first place that seemed child friendly. To be honest, much of the Memphis we saw this afternoon was pretty run down and sad. You can feel the history that lives here but it definitely felt like just that… history. So much more to see in town, including record studio tours, more museums, and a massive Bass Pro Shop that many have raved about, including the nice mom we met at the pool, but the crazy heat drove us back to the pool for evening swimming, followed by a lively poker game with our girls who have yet to learn the art of the poker face.

If you’re still singing the Marc Cohen song “Walking in Memphis” in your head so was I, and when we left we DID turn onto Union Ave and tomorrow we’ll “walk right through” the gates of Graceland.