Another cave but a very different experience. Not beautiful like Luray, not enormously impressive like Carlsbad Caverns, these passage ways were smaller and creepier but life below earth was still fascinating. If you are at all claustrophobic this is not for you! You frequently have to crouch through the low passages, and the feeling that you are stuck below ground with no easy exit is palpable. At one point the ranger, the only guy who knows his way through the cave, had to leave us and go get help for a woman who seemed to be panicking.
But if small underground spaces don’t bother you then there is plenty of beauty to see. This cave has what’s called “boxwork” rock formations. Apparently 95% of the boxwork that has been found here on earth is in this cave and the nearby black hills. Our ranger, Nick, was so passionate about this cave and explaining the formation of boxwork and the cave itself that I was convinced geology is the most interesting thing ever and I’m absolutely fascinated by rocks… until I reached daylight again and realized it’s not rocks I love, but people who love what they do LOL.
What we found interesting:
- They have found boxwork formations on Mars, and knowing what they know about boxwork from caves, it’s evidence that there was water on Mars at some point in time. If you want to learn more about it be careful with your spelling or google will bring you to Boxwood Dr. in Mars, PA real estate pages, LOL.
- Wind Cave has fossilized poop!
- The very microscopic organisms that manage to live in these waters have to kill any competition to exist, so scientists study these cave bacteria that have never seen the light of day, literally, as possible new advancements in medicine to fight infections that are becoming resistant to current antibiotics.
- Based on air pressure that moves in and out of the cave they believe they have only discovered 10% of its actual size (they have already mapped out over 150 miles of passages since 1890!)
- The wind that really does blow in and out of the cave changes direction based on weather – ribbon blowing into the cave = good weather. Ribbon blowing out of the cave = inclement weather.
- Ranger Nick turned all the lights off at one point and lit a candle to show you what exploring the cave was like initially. Yikes!
- The ancient Lakota tribes believe their peoples spirits came from these caves and the first bison on earth walked out of these caves.
And what we found interesting above ground:
- Super dense population of wildlife since it’s not a big park. We stopped to take a picture with the sign on the way in and had to keep an eye out for the bison on the road ahead of us.
- This was the 6th national park established. When a family re-discovered the cave (because the native people had already found it, of course), they searched for gold and finding none decided to partner with a local business man to make it a tourist attraction instead. When the 2 parties started arguing over rights to the cave, the government had to get involved to settle the dispute. The Dept. of the Interior ruled that neither had rights to the cave so they claimed it and made it a national park in 1903, making it the first cave to be protected. Kinda funny. It’s like a mom telling her kids- if you can’t share the toy neither of you get it. I’m keeping it and profiting instead.
These caves were a great reminder of the role national parks play in protecting land and educating the public. Putting walkways and handrails and lighting through miles of these caves causes harm and damage to the cave itself. Ranger Nick reminded us that the park’s goal is conservation not preservation. He said if it was preservation no one would be allowed in, LOL. A great end to our summer of national park adventures.















Before heading back we had a fun lunch at Custer Wolf restaurant in town and managed to use their wifi and cell reception to check into tomorrow’s flights. So that is the end of my trip blog. But that was not the end of my day. The rest is really TMI, but this is how I spent the last afternoon of my epic summer trip…
Our scenic drive back to the campground knowing our last adventure was over got me thinking, and after 44 days my emotions finally bubbled over. All of them. Super messy like. Sad that it’s over. Happy that we loved it as much as we did. Sad that I’m not finishing the trip in the RV. Happy that Mat gets to keep going and take advantage of his sabbatical. Very sad that we are leaving him behind. Happy to be going home. Sad to leave Crystal and Murphy. Happy the kids are so excited for school. Relieved that we made it this far. Unsure of what to do next after so much planning went into this. Unsure about the state of our house (that’s another blog). Dreading unpacking. Overwhelmed by the growing to-do list for home (update the calendar, activities, schedules, coordinate rides…) Super disappointed that Mat’s plans to have his sister meet him after we leave and drive half way back, and then meet his brother to drive the rest of the way back both fell apart (disappointed because I know how much Mat was looking forward to time with them and worried that it will be difficult and not as much fun for Mat to have to travel with Crystal, Peggy and Murphy alone but, of course, he’s fine with it!) Then super grateful that both his sister and brother did everything they could to salvage a trip and both rebooked flights to meet him in different cities than originally planned. So they still get to travel with him which makes my heart happy! So many emotions… and this was just a short car ride home, LOL.
Then back at the campground things got worse, or messier anyway. And by things I mean me. No cell service, no internet, which when camping I would normally enjoy, but we fly home tomorrow and I can’t check flights or see how long it takes to get to the airport. Kids can’t download books and shows for the flight. I can’t make arrangements for landing or contact the people I need to on the other side. So frustrating! And I am getting more annoyed by the second. (How do you call yourself a base for all these nearby attractions – Wind Cave, Custer, Crazy Horse, Black Hills, Mount Rushmore – but we can’t map it out on GPS or look up what time it opens or how long it takes to get there! Grr. I love relying on my map apps or at least knowing ahead of time when I need to plan on paper.)
So I busied myself with packing to leave. Mat went to do laundry and found the water on this side of the campground is out, including ours. Awesome. But we figure it out like always. This place is gigantic so Mat takes the girls to the front lodge and gets laundry done there and uses their internet to help the kids get ready for the flight. Thanks Mat! I pack up our duffle bags that have been collecting dust under the couch waiting for this very moment. Looking forward to a nice last night with my family and shaking off these heavy emotions, we head to the pool for a last swim. Then off to the shower to get cleaned up for the flight home and find them open and ready to use. Great, water must be fixed. Luckily I turn mine on first and find rusty brown water shooting out of the pipes getting darker every second. Stop! I jump out of my stall and bang on the kids’ doors like a crazy person. Sure enough, every stall looks like a scene from The Shining – reddish brown liquid just pouring out. So gross! Why would you open the laundry and bathrooms again without flushing the pipes clean first? 😭
I hate this place. I want to go home.
But I’m dirty and really don’t want to get on a plane feeling filthy. So I’m going to fix this, like we always do. I pile the kids and shower caddies in Peggy and drive around this huge place with all these annoyingly happy people just relaxing and enjoying themselves, getting in my way with their leisurely pokey walks on this beautiful sunny day, interfering with my quest for the other 4 “comfort buildings”. I find 2 and there’s no parking at either. I really hate this place. So I give up. Defeated, we head back still dirty, the girls unusually quiet.
Accepting my fate, I decide not to let this place ruin my last night. We played some games (dominoes) before dinner and the family time was just what I needed. I managed to find a shower not out of a horror movie (yay clean Kim!) and Mat made a delicious last dinner (yay fed Kim!) and Maddy made a nice fire in the fire pit so we could sit around in our pjs (yay comfy Kim) roasting marshmallows and looking back on our adventure. My heart is calm and happy again. We played ‘best and worst’ and when it came to the worst part of Maddy’s trip she said “mom freaking out over the shower today, it was kinda scary” and we all had a good laugh. So mom’s not perfect, but it took 44 days before I finally “freaked out” and if that’s the worst part of your trip, that’s a pretty great trip kid. And it wasn’t just about the shower, it was “emotional vomit” as Mat calls it, LOL.
We ended the trip the same way we started – playing a few games of BS before bed. Both girls have improved greatly with their BS skills – that can’t be a good thing 😂. So today had its ups and downs (that works for emotions and caves too). But even with all the feels, I’ll remember it as one more sweet day with my family.
Still, I can’t wait to check out of this place.

I love my people.







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